Or and his wife, the late Einav Elkayam, spent time at a party in Ra'im. They left it when the alarms started at 6:30. They managed to get to Kibbutz Ra'im intersection and stopped at the "Bird Shelter" - a neighborhood later called the "Death Shelter." Around 07:50 terrorists arrived at the shelter. According to the videos and testimonies of survivors, it was understood that the terrorists threw and shot into the shelter over 8 grenades and stun grenades, some of which exploded in the shelter and some were thrown out by the people hiding in it. At some point the terrorists entered the shelter and kidnapped people, one of whom was Or. The terrorists took people, dragged them , and told them to get out. After that, according to testimonies, they fired at Migunit, which miraculously saved several people who were lying under the many bodies. Einav, Or's wife and mother of their son Almog, two and a half years old, was murdered.